Proceed with caution

Have you ever been in any social event and noticed that lone female who exudes a delicate balance of confidence, and aggression? Did you also notice the males in that establishment are drawn to her? Other women try to emulate this same level of aggression and completely fail, and it is as if the men are running away from her.

This post is dedicated to explain why we men love aggressive women and explain why one woman was successful while the other failed.

FIRST, men love aggressive women because it goes against the nature or definition of the characteristics of a so called "woman". Aggression is something that is affiliated with men. A woman that exudes this uncommon characteristic, and TAKES WHAT SHE WANTS is very sexy, and different. As men, we love the fact that we can be pursued at times, it's a great feeling. Now, there is a thin line between aggression and demanding. Being demanding is a huge turn off (TRUST US), and it makes us get defensive. To men, demanding is the first sign of crazy. We want no parts of that!

Some men will not be able to handle an aggressive woman, forgive them ladies they are not a justifiable sample of the whole. These certain individuals are not accustomed to giving up the position of power. The hunter has become the hunted, and it is not easy to accept. Try to imagine...you've had the same beautician doing your hair since birth, one day you show up to your appointment to find out that she has quit. Do you know how scared and uncomfortable you would be? You'd feel vulnerable.

THERE IS A LINE BETWEEN BEING AGGRESSIVE AND CRAZY. If you have to ask yourself AM I DOING TOO MUCH? The answer is usually yes you are. Crazy always questions if they're crazy. No matter how much you try to disguise your crazy, we will find it! MAC does not make concealer for crazy ladies.

YOU CANNOT BE UNAPPEALING TO THE EYE. Whoopi Goldberg, Sheryl Underwood, CANNOT be aggressive, there is too much going against them. Remember, we said aggressive is different; well so is ugly. Too much difference is just being an outcast.

So ladies listen, AGGRESSION IS SEXY. Learn to walk the line between aggression and crazy. If you were not gifted facially, just wait. Somebody once said, GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT. lol

If you knew better you'd do better. Don't wear Uggz in shoe weather.